Dating experts have said that "Passion is what keeps the flames of love alive." Couples in long term relationships can count on that advice. How does one keep their partner's sex drive active?
A healthy sex drive is good for one's health at any age. Research has showed that an active sex life increases your immunity from viruses. It also relieves one's stress and even instantly improves one's mood by the releasing of chemicals.
A healthy sex life is just what the doctor ordered. It also improves the relationship between couples and improves their bond. How exactly does one keep their partner's sex drive active? It's easier than you might think.
1. Learn what turns your partner on. What does your partner like? Do they love it when you show a bit of leg? Do they like it when you show off your cleavage? Showing off your best assets in the privacy of your own bedroom can be such a turn-on for your partner because they know that it is a private show just for them. Follow it up with a "come hither" gaze and they are like putty in your hands.
2. When you go out to the movies, don't be ashamed to make out like you did when you were younger. Fancy taking in a movie? Just because both of you have been in a long-term relationship doesn't mean that you have to keep PDA to a bare minimum. Dare to take things up a notch and do a little necking in the darkness of the theater. It will serve as a teaser for later.
3. Rent out a sexy video and watch it with your partner. Nothing like watching a racy video with your partner and enjoy watching it together. It leads to many possibilities.
4. Be open to things with your partner. Communication is always important in any kind of relationship. Tell your partner what turns you on and what you like (and don't like) while having sex. Express how you feel when you two are having your intimate moments. Tell them what you love, what turns you on, and what makes you roar.
5. Never underestimate the power of touch. Human beings were made to be touched so always use this knowledge to your advantage. Sometimes a comforting touch at the end of the day is what your partner needs for reassurance. A massage could soothe tired muscles. Touch is precious because it is the contact of skin on skin and provides one with deeper intimacy.
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